Wednesday, June 13, 2012

Happy 3rd Anniversary to us!

Today is my and Joshua's third wedding anniversary. 

I would usually do a mushy man I love my husband post, but I think our relationship can be summarized with how awkward our first "i love you' was...
February 2005
The scene:
Cloudy Saturday, Joshua and I sitting on creamy-colored couch in his apartment watching "8 Mile"

The clothes:
Me - Sweatpants, Oakland Athletics T-shirt, Josh's socks (his apartment was always freezing and I never wore socks) and my hair in a messy, messy bun.
Josh - Basketball shorts, a cut-off t-shirt and of course white socks with his Nike sandals

As Joshua and I watched "8 Mile" I joked on him about being able to rap most of the raps and how he used to look like Slim Shady in his early high school years (he had almost white hair).
Josh, sick of being teased, jokingly said "man, I hate you."
I laughed and pretended to leave.
Josh yells out "I'm just messing, you know I love you."

**Awkward silence**
Josh stammers and mumbles "uh, well you know what I mean, now shut up I'm missing the rap between Rabbit & Lotto"

The moment passes.

Scene:The Monday after, rainy day in February, I am driving home from school and my phone is ringing.

Dialogue:Me: Hello
J: Crap, why did you answer? You are supposed to be at soccer practice!
Me: Uh.. sorry it's raining, it got canceled. What's up?
J: Hang up I am going to call back, don't answer. I am going to leave a message.

So I hang up. 
And he calls back.
I let it ring and the whole time I worry that he is breaking up with me over a voice mail, why else would he be too scared to just say it to me while he had me on the phone!?
I am going through all the dates and meet the parents moments to see where I messed up and how I could have been stupid enough to think I was lucky enough to think i was actually going to live happily ever after with a guy who was not only taller than me and handsome, but had a great family, relationship with god and liked me.

So, my phone beeps to let me know I have a message.
I am sweating bullets.
On the voice mail Josh says, "Lauren, I know we've only been dating a little while and I am not usually one to throw around the L word, but I love you. I feel more strongly about you than I have any other person. The other day when we were watching the movie, it kind of jumped out of my mouth, but I meant it... uh that's it. Call me back."

"He loves me" I said to myself. 
I immediately dialed his number and told him the exact same things. 

Fast forward to June 13, 2012, three years after our wedding.

We celebrated last night (since tonight I have an education initiative meeting until 8pm) with sushi to-go and a date with our DVR.. yes that is our life now, but it was glorious to have some time alone while Josh's folks kept Sawbug.

I am so blessed to call Josh my husband, best friend and father to our son. I am so glad God chose him for me and despite our arguments, flaws and a few cell phones thrown at heads (my bad...) I couldn't replace him if I tried.

Come back tomorrow for my final post about my Euro Trip!


  1. I literally laughed out loud reading this post! I love my family - full of awkward moments but lots of sweetness too! Happy anniversary to my wonderful cousins!

  2. Haha, I loved reading this story! Happy Anniversary to you guys!

  3. I can't believe I've never heard that story before - love it! Happy anniversary you two!!

  4. ahhh cell phones... muffin pans... poor guy has had a lot thrown at him :)